A Woman Complained That Her Aborted Fetus Didnt Get A Proper Burial So The Clinic Sent Her A Sympathy Card Including Her Ultrasound
Metro- A mother who allegedly received a sympathy card from the clinic where she had an abortion – along with ultrasound images of her aborted foetus – has called the card disgraceful.
Nicky Windsor, 29, visited Conifer House clinic in Hull in June to have an abortion.
She complained to the clinic after the procedure claiming that she was not offered a single burial for the foetus, rather than a mass burial.
‘I didn’t have that so I felt like I never got the chance to grieve properly and you can’t get that back,’ she said.
However after making her complaint Nicky received a sympathy card from the clinic, which contained ultrasound images of the aborted foetus.
The card was allegedly signed by staff members or the clinic, and featured the note: ‘Hope this gives you some comfort.’
Nicky, said: ‘I couldn’t believe my eyes. It’s absolutely disgraceful.
‘I’ve never known anything like it. What were they trying to do to me? Why on earth would I want scan pictures?
‘Going through a procedure like that is traumatic enough so to have it all brought back to me in the way that they did was absolutely shocking.’
"Hey Tina, that lady that's upset that the fetus that she paid us to rip out of her stomach didn't get a proper burial is on the phone again. What should we do?"
"Tell her we'll make it up to her."
"How are we going to do that?"
"Shit, I don't know. We'll mail her a card and an ultrasound or something."
I got to say, this story is very misleading. I started off thinking that these people at the abortion clinic needed to be locked up, and now it's clear they are the victims. No, sending an ultrasound to a grieving....uhhh....what's the word....it's definitely not mother....uhhhh...person. Yeah, sending an ultrasound to a grieving person sounds psychotic, but it's no more psychotic than requesting a full fledged funeral for a life that you willingly had terminated. That's no different then a mass murderer trying to delay his prison sentence so he can attend his victim's wake. Hey lady, you're the reason they have to have a funeral, you don't get to make the arrangements. I've never had an abortion obviously, and I really hope I wasn't indirectly responsible for one, but I would imagine the best way to handle the aftermath is to try to forget about it as soon as possible, not sit around a casket looking directly at what you've done. Optimists say that funerals are a celebration of a person's life and not a mourning of their death, but there's really only one option available to you when there was no life lived.
The only way the abortion clinic could have handled this better was by not handling it all. All that unborn baby accomplished in "life" was sitting in a stomach in the fetal position. If you REALLY wanted to mourn that baby then receiving a picture of it doing the only thing it ever did actually sounds like a reasonable solution. Therein lies the problem. You can't incorporate rational thought into a dispute that's completely free of logic. The lady that complains about unborn fetuses not being given elaborate burials will complain about anything. That's a no win situation. Now you have news outlets making it sound like you're the bad guy for trying to comprise with a woman that wanted to mourn the life she took, but didn't want to see the life she took. Probably would have been better off hanging up on her. You want to prove a point to pro-life people? Show them that this nutbag was an abortion away from being responsible for a another human being.